Enema The following discussion contains graphic references to unusual sexual practices. If you are offended by such behaviour, do not read further. This discussion deals with sexual practices that could result in the transmission of infectious diseases. These are not games for amateurs. Before playing these games, know your own and your partner's sexual-health status (have tests for HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases). Learn the rules of safer sex. Finally, this discussion may present items that are fantasy, meant for mental rather than physical use. Some of the practices described would be dangerous to individuals with weak areas in their colons. The author/s disclaim any specific medical knowledge or training that would qualify them to judge the medical safety of any of these procedures. None of the following procedures should be attempted in real life without competent medical advice on their advisability for the given individual. If you chose to ignore this warning and do these things anyway, be sure to have a prearranged signal that the patient can use to prematurely end the session if things get too rough. Remember that if the patient is gagged, it can't be a spoken safe-word and if restrained, many gestures will be impossible. Also be sure you both are comfortable enough with your lifestyle choices that you could confidently rush to the local accident unit if your play resulted in an accident such as rupture of the intestines. Also note that, while D&S offers a scenario where one can enjoy the hurts-so-good feelings of a large enema, it is by no means the only legitimate way this can be done. Solo sessions can be great. In these, you can just give yourself over to the sensual feelings or you can play both the Nurse and patient roles. However, fringe play, reaching to the extremes of volume, should not be done without a partner who stands ready to assist should an emergency arise. Duets where two lovers engage in this intimate sport are truly wonderful. The treatise below is not meant as a road map to be rigidly followed but rather is a set of suggestions. We hope that you may find something of value to your own sensual enjoyment. Finally, you may note that I give an unfair amount of attention to treatments for female patents. This is simply because it saves me keep writing he/she, him /her. I recognise that many -- probably most -- of you into enema submission are males. For female doctors reading this to find ways to sweetly torment your E- male, just switch the genders and (with occasional modifications for plumbing differences) everything will still work just fine. When it comes to enema sex, the male and female are remarkably alike. From time to time, someone contacts me asking for suggestions regarding punishment enemas for nursing games. The enema makes a divine form of torment for patients, so it's not surprising there is considerable interest in this topic. There are at least seven good reasons why the enema is such a consummate tool for control. 1 The enema can be made quite painful. 2 It involves humiliating postures, sounds, sights and smells. 3 It brings all of the senses into play, a veritable concerto of sensory overload. 4 It exposes very private and intimate parts, and ignites deeply personal, visceral feelings. 5 Enema play involves two people in an activity that is so taboo that the very sharing of it together creates an incredible bond of kinship. 6 It penetrates and fills the recipient more fully than any other sexual act short of pregnancy. In fact, the swollen belly look brought on by a large enema approximates the look of pregnancy. It makes the erotic enema a metaphor for sexual completion. 7 Penetration, ejaculation, impregnation and parturition. An enema forces the patient to focus attention on the treatment. It is nigh on impossible for even the most stubborn of patients to drift off or lose concentration in the midst of a massive enema. Giving a female patient an enema stimulates the sex muscles of her pelvic floor (the muscles that spasm during orgasm) in a very powerful way. Giving a male patient an enema generates sexual feelings both in the pelvic- floor muscles and in the prostate gland. In either sex, enemas given by a skilled nurse can single-handedly trigger an orgasm. Both the feeling of the nozzle penetrating and the spraying are highly erotically charged. People who have experienced an anal orgasm know that it is much more powerful than a genital climax. It seems to spread through the whole core of your body instead of centring only in your genital region. If you have enjoyed something not mentioned here, write to me, and let me know. Space allowing, I'll keep adding your good ideas. They can be attributed to you, with an e-mail address so readers can contact you, or they can be anonymous. Just let me know how to handle the by-line. The most obvious way to make an enema punishing is to make it big. But how big is safe and can't the volume question be answered with anything more subtle than simple overkill? Nurse's tease about big prep enemas called 3H procedures for "High, Hot and a Hell of a Lot." Well, most nurses still have a thing or two to learn about human capacity. Before we launch into a discussion of what's possible, however, let's take a moment to consider what's wise. Our games should always stop well short of leaving any permanent injury to the patient. Sure there are people who maim or disfigure themselves in the name of sex, but I do not write for them, and I do not agree that such practices are sexy. I am speaking to couples who wish to integrate kinky, wild play safely into their lovemaking. Put her on a rubber-sheeted mattress with some towel covered pillows. Have her assume the knee-chest position, a wonderfully humble pose. Take plenty of time lubricating her anus. If she's good, compliment her on how beautiful and sexy her exposed sex and bottom is. Slide a douche nozzle into her and give her a two-quart enema of warm water. Have a jug standing by with another two quarts of cooler water. Just before the bag gurgles empty, add the second two quarts, and continue enemaing her, fucking her in the ass with the nozzle all the while. As you pass three quarts, the pain will begin to increase. For most people, somewhere between three and four quarts the pain becomes pretty severe. You'll need to know your patient in order to help her get the most from this enema. Some patients like to just tough it out. They will take an incredible filling with no outside sexual stimulation. Their turn-on is altogether mental, borne in their ability to take any punishment you give them. Others do much better if masturbated continuously throughout the procedure. You want to keep her close to cuming, but not let her go over the top and lose it. When she does orgasm with a large enema inside, she will almost certainly spurt spasmodically as the waves of intense pleasure tear at her anal muscles. Therefore, you will want to use this procedure only in places where accidental discharges will not do any permanent harm. You can either enjoy the spectacle of her spurting in time to her orgasmic tremors, or punish her further for losing control. That's Enough, That's Enough! This is a treatment reserved for the most serious of punishment sessions, and only to be used with slaves who have a great tolerance for, and a love of pain and humiliation. This kind of session is NOT to be taken lightly. It takes time to properly prepare. The patient must fast for one or more days, taking only a liquid diet during that period. Each evening of the fast, give the slave a powerful laxative. Each afternoon and again before letting them bed down, give them enemas till they run clear. The last two of these should be sufficiently larger than their standard capacity to ensure that the small as well as large intestines are being flushed of wastes. Before the actual procedure begins, give several enemas of large volume until the returns are clear. It is advisable that the patient is not restrained for this procedure. It will be entirely difficult enough with full mobility. Use an open-top bag with at least 6 feet of enema tubing and a standard nozzle. Do not use a retention Catheter (Bardex). It could allow dangerous pressure levels to develop in the colon. Fill the bag with 2 quarts of water, expel the air from the hose, and clamp off the flow. Have a hanger placed near the ceiling, and hang the bag up there. Push the nozzle into the patients behind. Give the enema slowly, clamping the hose to let any signs of cramping pass before resuming the flow. Before the bag is fully empty, add another 2 quarts and slowly run that into the patient. Again, stop just before the bag is empty, and put another 2 quarts in. Above four quarts, you will have to go very slowly, clamping the hose for longer periods and coaching your patient through her La Maze breathing so that she can handle the enormous enema in her. At some point, usually between four and six quarts, she will get such pressure inside that she will vomit. This can be the end point of the procedure, or the start. There are patients who so love pain and suffering at the hands of their nurse that they will willingly endure bag full after bag full forcing its way up past their pyloric valve into their stomach where they will involuntarily vomit it from their system. When they are done, they will be utterly cleansed, the body well flushed of toxins, and feeling like a rag doll. Cuddle and pamper the patient who is willing to do this for you. This is a precious person indeed. Taking a 2-quart enema is not real punishment. Taking several in a row is a bit of a chore. As you get to five or more fillings, the pain level of each successive enema builds. Also, the anal area becomes steadily more sensitive. Up to a point, this sensitivity enhances the erotic impact of the punishment. Let's look at ways to maximise this effect. Get ready for the Flesh Enema Nurses, require your patient to take enemas until the returns are clear so that she will be clean enough back there to be ass fucked by the you. She will also be highly sensitised. If done improperly, this will make her sore, and anal intercourse will be too painful. If done with sensitivity, it makes a wonderful, exciting ritual of preparation. It provides your patient with a demonstration of how you care for her and it gets her totally focused on how her ass is going to soon be your pleasure pillow. I Love it When You Moan Like that. Or simply tell a patient you want to enema them over and over because their moaning and distress turns you on. In my book, watching my patient undergo an entire evening of flushings is way more fun than a night of Rosanne reruns. A good nurse is ultra perceptive. Discern that point where the patient's anal sensitivity is at maximum for erotic feeling. The assignment for the nurse. Never push your patient past the place where they need to go, and never drop them far short of that place. The E2C Enema One of the most erotic of scenes is to restrain and enema a patient and make love during each filling. As the patient gets hotter and hotter, the nurse will be treated to the thrill of her thrusting her rear back onto the nozzle and groaning into his kisses and embraces. The ultimate expression of this enema is forbidding the patient to cum from any other source, then repeating the procedure day by day till just your touch on her breasts, your mouth on hers, and the water coursing into her sensitive bottom is enough to do the trick. Hence the name, E2C or Enema To Cum. You really have to know your patient's tolerance and hot buttons to pull this off. Too many enemas in one session and they get so sore it never happens. Too few and they never get hot enough. And you have to know just what kind of teasing and necking gets them the hottest. For some, paying homage to their nurse's genitals or bottom is the ultimate turn on. Of course, just about all will get hot if you rub and admire their distended tummy, occasionally brushing close to their genitals as you praise them for taking so much enema for you. No cheating, though. Don't deprive them of the joy of an anal orgasm by actually touching their trigger. Looks Like You Want More This is a twist on the E2C that is particularly adapted for male patients. Use a retention or butt-plug nozzle. The nurse gets her patient all hooked up and restrained on a bed. She sits beside him and begins a steamy touch up session. The only thing forbidden is any contact with his genitals. She keeps a sharp eye on his neglected manhood. There is a prearranged stiffness that is the signal to start the flow. As soon as she gets a good fire going in his penis, she opens the clamp and keeps both the nuzzling and the nozzling going till he gets so full he looses his erection. When the flag falls to half-mast, she stops the flow and does her level best to tease him back up to full hardness. Still, no touching of his penis. If she succeeds in stiffening him, time to start the flow again. Only when he's near bursting and the pain is so intense he can't get an erection no matter what does she let him empty himself so the process can start all over again. The goal is the same as the E2C. Enema To Cum. Like the E2C, it demands incredible sensitivity between the nurse and patient. Like the E2C, it may take more than a single sitting or a single day to reach the mountain-top experience of a spontaneous orgasm. Nurse's who have taken a man they love to this mountain top report that it is a transcendental experience for both. For the nurse, she learns something of the feeling of having her patient give themselves totally to penetration and cum in her embrace. When the nurse kisses and petting and the incessant pressure in his bottom force a whole body orgasm from him, the sounds a patient male makes are beyond description. The feeling a male gets should be required training for courses in maximum male sexuality. He learns that his body actually has sexually valid parts far removed from his penis, but nonetheless able to give him and his partner great pleasure. An orgasm produced in this manner is nothing like a penis centred cum. It is far more pervasive and long lasting. Continuous After you have your patient well cleaned, you can attach a bag directly under the shower head and just keep going and going like the Duracell rabbit. Some folks rig a hose directly to a tap. The first caution with this is that your household plumbing can deliver way more volume and more pressure than you can hold. Typical water systems yield 45 to 65 PSI at the tap, while typical enema syringes top out at 1 to 2.5 PSI. The moral here is don't use home plumbing. If you do, make darn sure you have the flow rate throttled back to a trickle and don't use any kind of retention nozzle. The idea is that any sudden surge in pressure must be free to blowback past the nozzle and escape the patient's rear. The Basic Shower-Head Enema We're recommending this be done with a bag hung from the showerhead to limit pressures to 2 PSI or so. The patient should be encouraged to take in as much as possible. When they become full to overflowing, make them hold the still spewing nozzle in themselves and allow them to release water in the shower or bath. They will, of course, have to spray all over their hand and bottom. Pretty humiliating, and the best part is the continuous stimulation of the water flowing in gets them hotter and hotter. Here they are doing this degrading dance, and totally getting off on it. Perfect D & S fun. This is best applied to male patients. Females who tend toward urinary-tract infections should not be allowed to do this. Rewards for Punishment A fun variation on this is to let them do the one thing they most love, but only when they continue to hold their water and take more. For instance, a nurse has a male patient who absolutely adores her pussy. To him, being able to look at, smell, kiss and suck her vagina is the supreme pleasure. She tells him, "First, you must enema yourself till the returns are clear. I don't want to stand in the bath while you fill it with poop. Then, we will start a continuous enema, and you can have my pussy to yourself so long as water is going inside you to drive you to the fever pitch I need. Whenever water sprays out of you, though, you must take your mouth away from me." To do this one, you need either a retention strap to hold the nozzle in the patient, or simply tape it in place. The strap is the preferred method because it leaves both their hands free to fondle. Solution Once you have explored the well-charted waters of high-volume enemas, you and your patient will probably want to delve into some of the more esoteric of erotic enemata. What, for instance, can you safely substitute for plain tap water? What will each alternate solution do? For the solution to these questions, read on. Hot Enemas should never be really hot. We can comfortably bathe in water quite a bit hotter than the safe limits for internal consumption, so the nurse needs to develop a sense for what's excitingly hot versus what's potentially dangerous. Also, before playing with temperature, read up on the signs of hypothermia, and the treatments. If the subject shows any signs of temperature stress, discontinue the play immediately and give proper first-aid treatment. Be prepared to get medical help if this first aid is not immediately successful. You can test enema water like you would test formula temperature for a baby's bottle. Let a few drops out on your wrist. If it feels well above normal body temperature, that's too hot. Remember also that water in the hose cools rapidly. You'll need to test some from the large volume still in the bag. Hot enemas tend to relax the muscles of the colon, reducing peristalsis, and making it easier to retain a large enema for a period of time. Hot enemas are the best thing going to warm up a patient who's been out playing in the snow or skiing. Cold Within the limits of heat that can be safely used, cold enemas are actually much more punishing than hot. Not only is the temperature a shock to delicate internal tissues, the cold water sets the intestinal muscles to working overtime. This produces rather painful cramping, and makes long-term retention extremely difficult. Cold enemas can serve other purposes than punishment. They are very effective in treating fever or hypothermia. Applied with a simultaneous, cool sponge bath to the body, they will quickly lower core temperature. AC Enemas No, I am not suggesting you plug your patient's bottom into a 13amp socket outlet. I mean alternating currents of hot and cold. Best way to do this is with two bags connected to a single nozzle through a Y fitting placed close to the nozzle end. The variation in temperatures of the fluid tends to focus the patient's awareness on their insides and what's happening to them. It can be real fun to ask them to report in their own words the sensations that the AC enema gives. Make them discuss it in intimate detail, describing how it feels way up inside as well as the feeling right where the fluid is spraying into their nether hole. An aside: Having a slave describe ALL the feelings associated with repeated enemas can be a tremendous turn on to you both. This is particularly effective with patient who get off on humiliation. Of course, by forcing them to discuss these matters with others present, you can greatly amplify the humiliation factor. Soapy Water The Soft Soap enema is a classic. Many of today's enema erotics were reared (what an appropriate word) on weekly or monthly doses of Soft Soap suds. The soap acts as an irritant to the intestinal tissues, producing cramping and powerful evacuations. It also helps to dislodge the hardened mucoid-fecal matter that encrusts the intestinal walls. Everybody should take a series of these once in a while, but not too often. Soapy enemas are great for an occasional heavy-duty cleansing of the colon. They are great because there is all the ritual involved. You must get the water to the right temperature, mix in soap till the water is cloudy and sudsy, administer one or more soapy fillings, administer one or more rinses. I've found female patients are particularly fond of the ritual and preparation aspect. It makes a woman feel loved and cared for if done with genuine tenderness. Spicy Now we move into the realm of the truly esoteric. There are several perfectly safe concoctions that can spice up an enema. The effects vary depending upon choice of potions. Here are just a few unique solutions to the plain old tap water rut. Certainly, there are many others. Be creative so long as you know what you are doing. But do not take risks with yourself trying out unknown potions, and do not experiment on a patient. To do so is a violation of the very foundation of trust upon which your relationship must be built. The patient must be able to trust the nurse to keep things safe. Lemon Juice Two ounces of lemon juice per quart of water turns an ordinary, ho-hum enema experience into the shriek of agony. The lemonade will produce terrific cramping. This is a great first enema to clean out the bowels for further play, but it is very tiring. Fire Extinguisher Here's an idea for an enema patient who says they can control their bowel functions. It's a twist on the lemon trick. Try this for real heavy pain. It works just like the soda/acid fire extinguisher. Tell them, "You've been good today, and I'm going to reward you by putting some baking soda in your enema so it is not harsh." Give the restrained patient a nice two-quart enema of water with baking soda. Now, as the bag empties into their distended bowels, find fault with something. Get really annoyed. Leave the bag hanging there. Tell them to hold their enema in and retain their nozzle. March off, and return with a quart of lemon juice/water per above. Dump that right in the bag. When it hits the baking soda, all hell busts loose in your little patient. You'd best move them to the toilet or put them in rubbers before doing this, unless you want them to spray the bathroom floor and have to mop that up later. Lobelia Lobelia herb is available in herbalist and naturopathic stores. As a tea, it is used to induce vomiting. It does this by stimulating massive cramping in any smooth muscle lining it contacts (stomach or bowel). To make an enema of lobelia tea, use 1 ounce of the dried herb to 1 quart of water. Boil the water, then pour it into a teapot with the herb. Cover, and let it steep for 20 minutes. Filter water from leaves. Mix with additional water to bring it up to 2 quarts and adjust the temperature to comfortably warm. Lobelia causes instantaneous, unbearable cramping. It is also reputed to be mildly psychoactive. Whether that's true is hard to say. It does generate a strange, mellow buzz, but that could easily be the endorphins released by the pain of taking it. It is virtually impossible to retain a 2 quart lobelia enema without the help of a retention catheter such as a Bardex nozzle. Pepper Looking for a hot time in the old town tonight? Here's your ticket. Amazingly, herbalists say this is really good for you (or your patient). You make a tea by steeping 1/2 oz or red pepper (cayenne) flakes to two quarts of water. Boil the water, then pour into a teapot with the pepper, let steep for twenty minutes, filter the pepper from the water, and bring to a comfortable temperature for use. It creates quite a sensation on the insides. Not quite what you would expect, but it will definitely set your sub's tail to wagging. A suggestion. This enema is different enough that the nurse should secretly try it before prescribing it for the patient. It is also worth noting that this enema provides enough stimulation to the male prostate that it can cause spontaneous release of ejaculate from the penis. So, of course, the nurse tells the slave that he must, under no circumstances, begin to leak cum, then plugs in the hot pepper nozzle and watched him squirm trying to prevent the unpreventable. Intoxicating (DO NOT DO THIS IF YOU ARE GOING TO DRIVE) Alcoholic beverages can be imbibed backwards, and the effect is greater than if you dump them down the proper hatch. In fact, one of the first cautions is to use real restraint in the amounts of alcohol with wine or beer enemas, because the colon is very good at absorbing alcohol. It is much better at this than is the stomach lining. Hence, you will get more intoxicated more rapidly when a given amount of booze is in your butt than when it is in your belly. DON'T overdo it and end up with a patient in real accident ward or worse. A second caution. If you use anything stronger than 12% by volume alcohol (as in a typical wine) dilute it to keep the alcohol content to 12% or less. A third caution. Alcohol impairs judgement. Don't get yourselves looped and throw caution to the wind, ending up in a compromising situation, or forgetting the rules of safer sex, or some such disaster, All enema lovers should set their sights on many happy returns. Sustaining Enemas can be used for purposes other than simple cleansing. Glucose or sugar water solution, given with a retention catheter, can actually sustain a person for a long period without any need for eating solid food. This can make an interesting use of a holiday weekend. During such periods, the bowels should be periodically flushed with plain water, as well. Amazing though it seems, there will be faecal matter to clear day after day even when no solid food is given. This is because fasting promotes the body to begin flushing out dead cells and toxins, and this mass of gunk congregates in the colon. Thus, the subject gets plenty of anal attention and ends up highly tuned to the stimulation it provides. This approach, if you can take it to several weeks, is an excellent way to train a new patient in being an enema patient. She may hate the enemas at first, but will begin to look forward to them after a time if they are her only source of food, fondling, and attention. Device Assisted Unless your patient is a gold medallist in willpower, enema experience and anal- sphincter-muscle tone, it is wise to use some sort of retention device to prevent unseemly accidents. Unless, of course, an accident is just what you are after. One great punishment routine is an enema that must be retained for a solid hour without assistance. If the patient fails and soils things, then they must get down on hands and knees in the mess they've made, and clean it all up till all is Air-Wick fresh. Bardex The Bardex nozzle is a retention device par excellence. It uses an inflatable balloon that is expanded once inside the anal ring producing a tight seal to hold the enema in. The best Bardex's have two such balloons. One is inserted inside the slave, the other remains just outside. When both are inflated, the inner one is tight against the inside of the anal sphincter and the outer balloon is tight against the outside of the anus, ensuring that the inner balloon doesn't slide too far inside and let any water slip past it. Butt Plug Butt plugs can also be used to force retention. They are generally less effective than the Bardex, because the only way the bulbous end of the butt plug can get inside is if it is small enough to force through the sphincter. The Bardex, which goes in small and then is inflated, does not suffer this disadvantage. However, for punishment, accommodating a large diameter butt plug adds a whole new dimension to the pain of the procedure. Butt plugs are also handy if you want to take the slave somewhere public while they hold their load, and you don't relish the idea of explaining why they have a 3/8 inch diameter latex tube protruding 18 inches out of their bottom. Will-Power Driven The ultimate retention-enema punishment is the will power driven one. It goes along the lines of, "If you really love me, if you respect me as your nurse, you WILL hold this for 30 minutes." You can work this into a fabulous approach-avoidance conflict for your sub. You command your patient to take a large enema and then spend 30 minutes on kissing you and getting you really hot. You tell them that, if they do it without leaking a single drop, they can have their favourite sexual treat as a reward. You warn them that, if they fail, they can go dump the rest of the enema. Retention or Else The patient line of retention is that anyone can do it. Yes, it is terribly painful to retain a large enema for a long time, but anyone with normal control of their anal sphincter can do it provided the consequences of failure are sufficiently agonising to motivate them to endure the suffering of retention. It may take some training on the consequences of failure, but your patient can learn to hold an enema until their body completely absorbs the fluid. For most purposes, it is better to not take retention to such lengths, but to let them expel after they have held the enema through the heaviest of the cramping. This kind of punishment is particularly effective for patients who cry easily. As nurse, I can kiss away her tears and continually reassure her how much I love her. Here is the place for the cliché, "This hurts me worse than it hurts you." Warning. To sell her this, you've got to be the kind of salesman who could sell a milking machine to a farmer who only has one cow, and take the cow as a trade in, so practice your salesmanship. Here is the essence of the play. It gives a couple an opportunity to work through psychological challenges the like of which they wouldn't see short of a death-bed scene in a daytime soap, only here it's not acting, but it's not death either. It's life. Abundant life for those who are willing to reach out and grab such a live wire. Methods As I'm sure you are seeing, the how of giving an enema can easily have more impact than the event itself. The basics of the procedure -- the injection of a fluid into the bowels for the purpose of cleansing -- are straightforward. It is the subtle twists in style that take enema play from a mundane and somewhat unpleasant hygienic routine into the realm of the most exotic of erotica. Equipment Every klismophile I know is an equipment freak. In this category, each individual is unique. For one, it may be the colour and style of bag or type of nozzle that a loving mother or aunt used to cleanse them as a child. For others, it is size. Still others are excited and shamed when they see a table full of different gadgets to be used in enemaing them. The variety confirms their fascination with the procedure, which adds to their humiliation. Talk to your slave, and find out what makes them hot. Then keep their erotic thermostat cranked up to sweltering. The Large Nozzle Whether male or female, few enema patients have missed the connection between the enema and anal intercourse. Using a large, dildo type nozzle really (you should pardon the pun) drives this point home. Let's just say that, properly applied, it will give a slave a deep-seated understanding of the feelings of being buggered. Thus, dildo nozzles are great for two uses. For the male slave with anal active desires, his nurse can show him what he's asking a woman to endure. Females, if you're a bit of a switch by nature, this can provide a delightful game of tit for tat. "First, let me do you. If you take your enema ass fucking without a whimper, I'll let you fuck me in my hot, horny ass tonight." Of course, whenever you use a real large nozzle, you want to use lots of active fucking into the slave's waiting rectum. You also need to know a thing or two about anal sex insertions, or this can rapidly move from hurts-so-good to truly unbearable pain. The anus must first be well lubricated. If your patient would be turned on by it, you might force them to lubricate themselves again and again, making sure their greased finger slides well up into their rectum and that they properly spread the lubricant all over. It probably will require three or four separate applications to get this right. Have them start with one finger and work up to three or four to help stretch the anal opening. All the finger fucking loosens them and helps prepare them for the bigger thing to come. When they are really greased and slippery, have them push the tip of the big nozzle against their anal opening and tell them to push out hard as if straining to shit. If they do so, a little gentle pressure on the nozzle will sink it right in with a minimum of pain. Of course, some pain is part of the target. The more their anus clamps down -- opposite of pushing out -- the more the insertion will hurt. But the pain of anal rape is almost impossible to describe, and way off the scale of what most slaves will find to be a turn on. The Diaphragm Pump Get a small diaphragm pump run by a 12-volt battery. You want one with a flow rate between 4 to 20 gallons per hour when pumping into a 6 foot static-head. The lower number will deliver a 2-quart enema in 7.5 minutes. The high-end flow would cut that delivery time to 1.2 minutes, which is a pretty fast flow. For most folks, the slower rate is better. Such pumps can be purchased from large industrial-supply houses. Even if you haven't a clue about flow rates and static-head, the pump sales-staff will know what you're talking about. They will also ask what your application is, so be prepared with the stock line, "For obvious reasons, I will not divulge anything about the use." They'll assume you're an inventor with some new secret, and generally drop the 20 questions routine. Females, this is a particularly effective treatment for a horny male klismo, because the vibrations in the water, the back and forth spurting action produced by the diaphragm stroke, delivers vibrator-like stimulation to the male prostate. Most males, if already sufficiently hot, will experience an incredible, very long lasting orgasm before they get the first two quarts in them. Female patients are less physically, but often more emotionally attached to this style of enema. The rectum is rather rich in nerves when compared to the deeper reaches of the vagina. Most women cannot feel the ejaculate spray into their vagina during ordinary intercourse. Anal is different. Most women can feel each spasmodic spurt up their bowels. The feeling is utterly unique and exciting, because she really can feel every rapid, rhythmic squeeze of her lover's internal muscles as they spurt his love juice deep in her bottom. The diaphragm-pump enema will remind any anal-erotic woman of this feeling, but the waves of cum spurting into her will just go on and on. The water flowing deeper and deeper into your intimate recesses is like a cock going in and just pushing further and further till your entire being is filled with hot sex. Use a dildo nozzle or strap-on as the delivery vehicle to complete the analogy. Watch the pressure here. Most pumps can easily deliver enough pressure to pop a gut like a toy balloon. Don't use retention devices of any kind, and use your head to ensure play is always safe. The Strap-On Dildo Nozzle This is the perfect enema for a boyfriend that is always wanting to screw his lady in the rear. She gets a chance to teach him what it feels like. It can be a great sensitivity training tool in the need to hold back instead of just ramming a hard dick up her nether hole. If he's ever done that to you, and left you doubled over in cramps to your anal muscle, do him the same way. He will not only suffer exquisite pain, he'll catch on to the need to let you sit back onto his erection instead. He'll be much less likely to just ram it home in the future if he knows he'll get a double dose of the same for each transgression. Properly arranged, a strap on can be set up so each stroke gives your pussy and clit enough stimulation that you can eventually cum just from fucking him with it. You can find speciality nozzles like this through most equipment suppliers. Setting The where and when of a punishment enema can often have just as much emotional impact as the event itself. Don't believe it? Imagine you are the star of a documentary on dominance and submission, and the scene calls for you to take a huge enema in the before a sell-out audience at National Arena. Sexy settings are great Medical Settings Nurses, how about an examining table, your patient in the stirrups, and a gathering of "medical students" around to learn the proper method for inserting and using a Bardex nozzle. Each can take turns putting it in her, inflating it, deflating it and withdrawing it. This, of course, requires that she be thoroughly cleaned out first, so no little flecks of brown come back out with the catheter. After each has had a turn penetrating her pretty patient, you, the Specialist, step forward to impale her and fill her with hot fluid. This setting also provides an excellent opportunity to teach the medical students how to handle things if a patient becomes sexually aroused during an extended enema procedure. If you want, you may hand over control of the clamp to one of the students, and step to the head of the table where she can give you head. You then issue voice commands to the medical student in charge of the clamp, telling him when to start and stop her enema based on how well she sucks your cock. The Walk in the Park There is an almost pregnant look that comes with the stomach distension caused by a large enema. For female subs, this can be fun. Get her some maternity clothing. On days when she's been bad, have her strip butt naked. Give her a series of cleansing enemas to prepare her. Finish by pumping her up with at least three quarts of water. Push a large butt plug in to hold all that water in her swollen belly. Now put nappy and plastic knickers on her to hold everything in its appointed place, then dress her in a maternity outfit. Go for a walk in the park. How long a walk? Depends on how bad she's been. Smile to everyone. Hold hands and discuss the plans for the new baby's room. Will it be a boy or a girl? The Full Monty Enema. This one takes a bit of preparation, but the results are definitely worth the effort. You first modify a double Bardex nozzle by removing the balloon-inflation bulbs, sliding enema-hose clamps onto the two inflation tubes, and then replacing the inflation bulbs. Use hose clamps that snap tightly shut, with no chance of inadvertently opening. You'll see why in a moment. On the delivery tube of the Bardex, place another of your trustworthy hose clamps, and position it near the end of the tubing away from the balloons. Before inserting the catheter in the slave, fill its delivery tubing with warm water and close the clamp on the delivery hose. For discussion, let's say I have a female patient who's rather fascinated by the antics of the Chippendale's men. The idea here is this. I insert the Bardex catheter into my patient's bottom in normal fashion. I inflate first the inner and then the outer balloons. Now, I clamp the hose clamps on the inflation hoses and remove the inflation bulbs. With adhesive tape, I secure the delivery hose so it feeds up the crack of her buttocks to near the small of her back. About 2 inches below her waistline, I turn the delivery tube and tape it to her flanks so that, when I slip a loose skirt on her, the end of the hose and its clamp are just poking out of the top of her skirt on her side. It is best to put a nappy on her, and protect her further with plastic knickers. Otherwise, she will probably have a big wet spot on the back of her skirt before her pussy stops juicing this evening. I complete the ensemble by putting a loose fitting blouse on her, one that does not tuck in at the waist, but hangs down and covers her feed tube. Now, all dolled up like this, I take her to her favourite male strip club to see (and feel) the excitement. In her purse, I have hidden a rectal syringe. Periodically, as the show raises her temperature, I send her to the ladies room with instructions to fill her rectal syringe with warm water and bring it back to our table. I have chosen a booth in a more private area of the club. Under the cover of the table I lift her blouse to expose her feed tube. The rectal syringe will fit perfectly into the catheter end. With a room full of people swirling around her and a sexy hunk shaking his bottom seductively before her eyes, I will pump bulb-full after bulb-full of warm water into her bowels. When she is so bloated that she is tearfully begging to be allowed to expel, I threaten to make her do it here, but I will not. I will lovingly lead her to the car, kissing her and nuzzling her neck all the way. I will take her home where she can finally expel this massive load without further embarrassment. And, all the way, I will tell her what a wonderful, sexy patient she is to have endured this treatment. How Big is Big The first important point to recognise in discussing large-volume safety is that human capacities vary widely. Each person has his or her own safe limit. Everyone needs to develop an inner sense of what feels OK and what hurts. When going for high volumes, it is vital not to obstruct the rectal sphincter. You should not use a retention nozzle or mammoth plug to let you stuff more inside than safety warrants. The average human develops localised pressures of 50 PSI in their colon during normal peristaltic action to move faeces along the colon. In contrast, an enema bag hung six feet above the hips delivers l bit less than 3 PSI (not localised pressure, but inflation pressure, quite a different matter) which can drive way more water into the body than the body can hold. Pressures nearing this level would normally just blow past a normal enema or douche nozzle, protecting the colon from excessive inflation. However, if you blocked up the escape route and deliberately poured in more than the body could stand, you could rupture their intestines and this would probably be fatal! Also be aware that very large volumes of water can force open the normally one-way valves from large to small intestine, and from small intestine to stomach. The result is nausea, which would not be fun for any but the most masochistic of slaves in normal circumstances, and can be double disconcerting if the patient has over a gallon of water bloating their intestines when they start retching. Needless to say, if vomiting is the goal, the entire intestinal tract must first be cleansed with a period of fasting, laxatives and enemas before back flushing contents into the upper digestive tract. Is Four Quarts Safe? I have taken 4 or more on many occasions, and have done no damage. Typical adult capacities vary between 3.5 to 6 quarts. To take this much, it is necessary to first clean out the lower intestines with a standard 2-quart enema, then take a second 4-quart or so to clean the large and small intestines. (Anything over about 2 quarts generally goes above the large intestine into the upper, small intestinal tract) Finally, go for the real volume on # 3. Be aware, though, that human bowel capacities are highly variable and not necessarily related to gender or body size. Only the recipient knows what's enough and what's too much. If one quart gives your patient the experience they crave, then that's the right amount. It is not something to develop performance anxiety or competitiveness about. And just for the record, the Guinness Book of World Records doesn't have an entry under colonic, douche or enema. Tail Ends Soapy enemas. They are fine if done once a month or so. Too often, and the intestines become so desensitised to ordinary stimuli that the massive irritation of the soapy enema becomes the only thing that will get the bowels to move. Use plain soaps such as soft green, simple or a castille soap. Do not use harsh deodorant soaps or ones having lots of chemical additives. Also, after giving a soapy enema, you must give one and preferably two clear-water enemas to rinse the soap out of the recipient's system. Hey, that's part of the fun of soapy enemas in the first place. Daily Flushing Some experts warn that enemas taken too frequently can become habit forming. They are quite right. Other experts, however, argue that, while this is true, that habitual use of enemas may actually be good for both physical and sexual health, and should therefore not be discouraged. What's the patient line. When it comes to D & S, an enema addicted patient is a treasure. You can keep her seething in bodily awareness either through too much or too little in her enema routine. If you want to hear her beg to be enemaed, cut her daily enemas off for a few days and see that she gets plenty of gas producing foods like refried beans, cabbage, onions, etc. When she does plead with you for relief, make her agree to tackle some as-yet-unreached goal in her training. Note that in this or any enema punishment, good enema practice is to be followed. Never start a session with a high-volume enema. Instead, flush the solid wastes from the colon first with a standard 2 quart filling using water no warmer than tepid. Where Does It All Go? If you give a slave several decent size enemas, or even one enema that they must retain for a period of time, it is a safe bet they will soon need to pee. The entire intestinal tract is a very efficient water absorber. Use your creativity. Perhaps you can find interesting ways to work this knowledge into enema discipline and humiliation scenes. If your repertoire includes a love or Golden Showers, here is a perfect way to get a two-for-the-price-of-one bargain. Anal Exercise 101 Anal exercises? Is this what they mean by anaerobics? Not exactly. You see, there is a set of muscles that support the pelvic floor, pubococcygeous muscles. Most folks shorten it to PCG muscle. Some women may have heard of the Kegel exercises to strengthen these muscles. These exercises take their name from the late Arnold H. Kegel, M.D. who pioneered knowledge of the PCG's relationship to orgasmic function in women. Dr. Kegel showed that, in women who infrequently or never achieved orgasm through intercourse, a series of exercises to strengthen the pelvic floor would dramatically increase orgasmic response. Even among people who know of the PCG's existence, the muscle is often ignored unless associated with women having orgasmic difficulties. Actually, this little knot of brawn serves numerous important duties in both men and women, and strengthening it will benefit almost anyone's sex life. The PCG muscles surround both the male and female genitalia and anal regions. The muscles spasm during orgasm in both sexes. And finally, of great importance to enema eroticism, they are a major player in the production of anal orgasms. This is because this muscle group is full of nerve receptors that become increasingly aroused by the sensations of anal penetration. Also, good PCG tone will enable your slave to reach new heights of enema retention. To build up tone in the muscle, practice this exercise three times a day. Sit on the toilet to pee -- that's right, male or female, sit. As soon as you get a good rendition of Life's Golden Stream going, stop the flow. You just contracted your PCG muscle to avoid being called I. P. Freely. Now, start again and stop the flow. Begin with ten interruptions in one bladder emptying. Build up to where you can stop and start 30 times at one sitting. By this point, you know your PCG pretty well. You can contract it at will whether peeing or not. Ladies, you can use PCG contractions to massage your lover's penis while he holds still in your vagina. You will definitely set him free. And finally? Glycerine fun. You will need: a bottle of Glycerin(e?) B.P. (Glycerol) (Get it from Boots in the UK circa £1.90) a 100ml syringe (from Mediquip - Favourite sit page) a rectal catheter ( from Mediquip?) a nappy plastic knickers Just simply inject 50ml into your patient and as quickly as you can get the protection in place. The cramps this mini enema produces come within 10 minuets and can not be resisted. If you what the effect to be slower but just as positive use glycerine suppositories, which are available from Boots and the like. If you patient is restrained it can be most entertaining if you can watch the fight for control on CCTV. {Please use your back button to return to the site)